When bedtime comes around, does your child throw bedtime tantrums? Do they yell, kick, and scream - or maybe you have the bedtime escape problem (they won't stay in their bed).
Irrespective of the sort of fit, it is disruptive and can cause so much stress in the house that it just appears like giving in is the only way to handle it all. This text will provide some basic info - however, the method of conquering bedtime fits will often need more than simply a single system.
Identify the reason for Bedtime Fits
Tantrums are a symptom, not the actual problem. So, to really get things fixed you need to understand the root of the problem. Here are a few possible reasons your child may be throwing tantrums at bedtime:
* Separation Tantrums - Typical in younger children (infants and toddlers) and it has to do with a since of security. Fear is a strong emotion and needs to be handled appropriately.
* Over-Stimulation Fits - This is when your youngster has crossed the line in levels of external activities and they don't understand how to cope. They may be over-tired, hungry, or merely overpowered by all that is happening around them.
* Power Fits - Now your kid is desiring to see who's got the power. They would like a little more time, only one more store, a longer bedtime routine - anything to remain up longer.
* Attention Getting Fits - These can be pretty intense, as your youngster is attempting to find a technique of keeping you concerned in the midst.
Reclaim Your Nights
For Separation - don't sneak out. You want to work on reassuring your kid that you're going to be there. Try playing games in the day where you leave and come back. Increase the 'hiding' time and help them learn that you are going to return.
For Over-Stimulation - this one is best to just avoid as much as feasible by keeping a routine. Frequently a well established bedtime routine can help calm a kid down.
For Power - don't give in. As fast as you do, they'll just do a similar thing or more the following night, as it works. Stay calm and remember that you're the parent. Say what you mean and mean what you are saying.
For Attention - This one can take time outside the bedtime routine to actually fix. It is sometimes a need for more targeted attention across the day. Try scheduling reading time, play time, speaking time, and just some hug time. Kids need attention, just as we do.
It is rarely Over. - 30224
Irrespective of the sort of fit, it is disruptive and can cause so much stress in the house that it just appears like giving in is the only way to handle it all. This text will provide some basic info - however, the method of conquering bedtime fits will often need more than simply a single system.
Identify the reason for Bedtime Fits
Tantrums are a symptom, not the actual problem. So, to really get things fixed you need to understand the root of the problem. Here are a few possible reasons your child may be throwing tantrums at bedtime:
* Separation Tantrums - Typical in younger children (infants and toddlers) and it has to do with a since of security. Fear is a strong emotion and needs to be handled appropriately.
* Over-Stimulation Fits - This is when your youngster has crossed the line in levels of external activities and they don't understand how to cope. They may be over-tired, hungry, or merely overpowered by all that is happening around them.
* Power Fits - Now your kid is desiring to see who's got the power. They would like a little more time, only one more store, a longer bedtime routine - anything to remain up longer.
* Attention Getting Fits - These can be pretty intense, as your youngster is attempting to find a technique of keeping you concerned in the midst.
Reclaim Your Nights
For Separation - don't sneak out. You want to work on reassuring your kid that you're going to be there. Try playing games in the day where you leave and come back. Increase the 'hiding' time and help them learn that you are going to return.
For Over-Stimulation - this one is best to just avoid as much as feasible by keeping a routine. Frequently a well established bedtime routine can help calm a kid down.
For Power - don't give in. As fast as you do, they'll just do a similar thing or more the following night, as it works. Stay calm and remember that you're the parent. Say what you mean and mean what you are saying.
For Attention - This one can take time outside the bedtime routine to actually fix. It is sometimes a need for more targeted attention across the day. Try scheduling reading time, play time, speaking time, and just some hug time. Kids need attention, just as we do.
It is rarely Over. - 30224
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