Having a child is a life altering experience. According to many new mothers and fathers, it's the best thing that ever happened in their lives. Nonetheless, despite all the joys that parenthood brings, it can be rather thorny at times.
No one can do it all. No one is perfect. Everyone makes mistakes, and it's ok to do so. It's natural. There are no real June Cleavers, they exist only on TV. Don't beat yourself up if you aren't living up to some icon of parenthood.
All parents get frustrated. Let's face it, having a child takes a lot of time and a lot of energy. The pressures of modern day life can make it overwhelming. To be a good parent means you have to take time for yourself. You need to get your life together so that your child will have a happy, healthy life too.
If you do find that you're not able to do something it's ok to take some time out for yourself. Hire a babysitter for a day or ask a friend or relative to look after your children while you go out and catch up with friends or see a movie. We all need breaks sometimes. It's not a sin to look after your own needs and desires every now and then.
When it comes to being a good parent, there are no ground rules. There really is no perfect parent, no perfect child. All you need is a little love to help your children grow up happy, healthy and wise. Every parent has love to give their child.
Show your child that you love him/her. Displays of affection are heartily encouraged. A child that knows that he/she is loved is much more likely to develop into a confident, well adjusted adult.
Give your kids a chance to express themselves. Listen to them. The simple act of listening can be very powerful. It makes your children feel valued and important.
Make sure your child feels secure in their home. If they're scared, comfort them. Give them reassurances. Having a safe home is important to the wellbeing of any child.
Instill within your children a sense of regulation. Children need order in their lives and it's up to you, as the parent to teach it to them. Make a schedule-have regular meal times, nap times and bed times. Try not to waver too much. Set an example yourself.
Praise often. Don't forget this simple, but important aspect of parenting. A child should be praised for his/her good work. This helps to bolster their self esteem and instills within them a sense of accomplishment.
Criticize the act not the child. Don't say, 'you're bad.' Rather tell the child that it's their behavior that's inappropriate. Explain to them what they've done wrong and direct them as to the right course of action.
Consistency is key. Make sure you stick to your rules and don't waiver.
Let your child know that you are there for whatever they need. Spend quality time with them. Really make an effort to set aside time for you and your child.
If you need a helping hand, ask for it. There are people there for you. - 30224
No one can do it all. No one is perfect. Everyone makes mistakes, and it's ok to do so. It's natural. There are no real June Cleavers, they exist only on TV. Don't beat yourself up if you aren't living up to some icon of parenthood.
All parents get frustrated. Let's face it, having a child takes a lot of time and a lot of energy. The pressures of modern day life can make it overwhelming. To be a good parent means you have to take time for yourself. You need to get your life together so that your child will have a happy, healthy life too.
If you do find that you're not able to do something it's ok to take some time out for yourself. Hire a babysitter for a day or ask a friend or relative to look after your children while you go out and catch up with friends or see a movie. We all need breaks sometimes. It's not a sin to look after your own needs and desires every now and then.
When it comes to being a good parent, there are no ground rules. There really is no perfect parent, no perfect child. All you need is a little love to help your children grow up happy, healthy and wise. Every parent has love to give their child.
Show your child that you love him/her. Displays of affection are heartily encouraged. A child that knows that he/she is loved is much more likely to develop into a confident, well adjusted adult.
Give your kids a chance to express themselves. Listen to them. The simple act of listening can be very powerful. It makes your children feel valued and important.
Make sure your child feels secure in their home. If they're scared, comfort them. Give them reassurances. Having a safe home is important to the wellbeing of any child.
Instill within your children a sense of regulation. Children need order in their lives and it's up to you, as the parent to teach it to them. Make a schedule-have regular meal times, nap times and bed times. Try not to waver too much. Set an example yourself.
Praise often. Don't forget this simple, but important aspect of parenting. A child should be praised for his/her good work. This helps to bolster their self esteem and instills within them a sense of accomplishment.
Criticize the act not the child. Don't say, 'you're bad.' Rather tell the child that it's their behavior that's inappropriate. Explain to them what they've done wrong and direct them as to the right course of action.
Consistency is key. Make sure you stick to your rules and don't waiver.
Let your child know that you are there for whatever they need. Spend quality time with them. Really make an effort to set aside time for you and your child.
If you need a helping hand, ask for it. There are people there for you. - 30224
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